The dreams list

    I'm 23 and everyday I understand that my life has just begun and I have a lot to learn, before I could say that I am a person that could be a good example for the others. You know what, not a person which earned a lot, which have money and power is a good example, not this is a criteria for me. I wanna ask you how many of your dreams came true? and don't say that money and power can be a dream because they aren't, they are a need not a dream. True dreams are those that you had when you were a kid and those that you add to your imaginable list till now. Sometimes we don't observe when one of our dreams came true, maybe because we aren't kids anymore and don't use our imagination like we did it before or we don't wanna remember  our hilarious dreams. 

   Everyone of us, at least boys wanted to be superheroes and fly above the clouds, the second part of this wish I accomplished and that was amazing and only now I realized that one of my oldest dreams came true)). Every girl wanted to be a princess if you are married you can put a tick towards that dream, becase tha day you got married you were a real princess. 

    The older we are, the bigger dreams we have.We should work hard if we want that our dreams came true. It's hard because of needs, because of them we forget our dreams, but who says that it would be easy. 

    Dreams give a greater meaning to our lives, don't forget to review and increase your list everyday and at the same time to tick every wish you've achieved.

Beautiful monsters

    *The following story is fictional and does not depict any actual person or event.

    He was a boy with games and animated movies in his mind, with no regrets and worries when he met her, his first beautiful monster. There was something special in her, that magnetized him. Something that made him smile every time their eyes met. I don't think that he understood, it was just a beautiful feeling, that he never felt before, but it was a game for him,an attachment from which he quickly tired or maybe because she moved away and he didn't see her day by day. Whatever happened, she remained in his mind like the first one that made him feel special.

   He grew up, he didn't speak much, he liked more to analyze what speak others. Meditating was one of his favourite occupations, so he pretty quickly understand that life is not quite so easy and beautiful. That was the time when he was trying to take a position and start to build his philosophy of life. That was the time when he met her. She took him off his feet, so independent and strong, with her vision of life, ready to face everything, maybe he thought this because he was so fascinated by her or maybe because he wasn't ready. Not so easy like in the first time and not a game anymore, it was more like a hunting by a diffident hunter. He was trying to impress her and in fact he did it. Up here was well, but next steps he made were "a fatal error of his processor", the first one was he thought he won, the second one shyness, that he forgot to turn off when they were on the other end of the world and the last one was that he thought that love is simple.

   It was very hard for him to understand his mistakes, this was the time when he understood that he doesn't know nothing yet. He passed through that and was preparing for one of the most important periods in his life. The period when his decisions are crucial for his future, the period that will have a big influence on his personality.That was the time when he saw her, graceful and cold, but not that drew his attention, it was the mystery in her that attracted him. He began to know her, a interesting person, lively and at the same time so sad. Impressed he wanted to know more and more, he tried to listen and understand her and he thought she was doing the same. He was so delighted when he saw her smile which cause was he. Everything was going perfectly almost, attachment passed in something more, they complement each other, that's what he thought and how wrong he was. Betrayal that he felt wasn't the worst moment, the worst was that this froze his heart and made him so cold.

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P.S. Sorry for my english, I hope you enjoyed the story:)

Sensul

     Timpul se scruge nemilos, zilele se aduna, trec lunile si se adauga anii. Tu te schimbi, oamenii din jurul tau se schimba, unii vin, altii se duc si in fiecare dimineata prinvindu-te in oglinda incerci sa gasesti un nou sens pentru aceasta zi, pentru a merge mai departe. Poate o sa ziceti ca vorbesc despre motivatie, dar motivatia e ceva ce nu dureaza mult, iar sensul e ceea ce ne impinge din urma, ceea ce ne ajuta sa mai facem un pas si de fapt sensul e acelasi, dar noi incercam sa il innoim de fiecare data, fiindca asa e mai simplu, ceva nou totdeauna iti da un impuls de putere. Unii il gasesc mereu cind au nevoie fara sa se gindeasca la el ca la sens de fapt, altii il cauta cu disperare si se pierd inghititi de viata si timp. 

    Care-i sensul ? Rudele, prietenii, adevarul, nu stiu, fiecare il gaseste pe al sau. Unii il cauta in trecut, fiindca e mai simplu si mai clar, se ascund dupa el si il invinuesc fiind speriati de viitor care citeodata arata ca o ceață.

    Viata e ca un drum, iar sensul  ca o busola ce te ajuta se mergi corect. Nu va pierdeti sensul si nu va ascundeti dupa trecut, fiindca el doar va indeparteaza de viitor.

Oamenii potriviți

    Viata si toate momentele frumoase din ea de fapt sunt ca o sclipire, iar noi si oamenii care ne inconjoara sunt cei care fac ca aceasta sclipire sa fie pusa pe "repeat". Cei ce ne inconjoara in mare parte ne reprezinta pe noi, in ei este cite o particica asa cum si  in noi este o particica a cuiva. Ce vreau sa va zic eu prin asta e ca, momentele frumoase din viata noastra se intimpla nu numai din cauza celor care ne fac sa zimbim si sa ne simtim bine sau din cauza celor care ne mingîie si atunci noi putem da friu liber emotiilor, nici numai din cauza celor care ne sustin si ne dau cite un sfat. O influenta nu mai mica o au si cei care ne cearta, datorita lor noi putem vedea greselile noastre, mai sunt si cei care ne critica, ei ne ajuta sa gasim noi idei si solutii mai bune decit cele pe care le aveam si chiar si cei care ne urasc ne ajuta mult, fiindca ce nu ati spune voi, dar ura e una din cele mai puternice motivatii, citeodata cu mult mai puternica decit dragostea. 

    Avind imprejur oamenii potriviti nu este garantat ca si tu vei deveni un om potrivit la locul potrivit. Sa ai oamenii potriviti linga tine e un mare privilegiu, de care nu intotdeauna ai parte si ei reprezinta doar 50% din succesul tau, restul depinde de tine si din citi pasi gresiti te vei invata sa respecti esecurile. 

   In viata mea am intilnit multi oameni potriviti, care m-au influentat atit direct prin sfaturile si criticile lor, atit si indirect prin faptele lor. Cred ca incep sa devin un om potrivit, cu o proprie viziune a vietii argumentata, cu o proprie experienta care se adauga in fiecare zi, poate inca nu mi-am gasit locul potrivit, dar cred ca asta ma asteapta in viitorul apropiat, foarte apropiat. Asa ca nu mai fiti atit de orgoliosi si nu mai ziceti ca nu aveti nevoie de persoana data in viata voastra, fiindca poate ea la un moment dat si o sa va lipseasca. 

Matriarhat

   Pentru o zi planeta noastra trece la matriarhat. Pentru voi astazi din imposibil se face tot posibilul. Chiar daca afara este -8, aceasta este una din cele mai calde sarbatori datorita voua. Ramineti mereu asa dulci, frumoase, unice si atit de aproape sufletelor noastre. Voi ne umpleti viata de culori si o faceti atit de diferita si speciala.

  La Multi Ani Femeie! La multi ani tutori mamelor, bunicelor, fiicelor, verisoarelor(I,II,III s.a.m.d),nepoatelor, surorilor, nanelor,naselor, matuselor, cumnatelor, sotiilor si iubitelor.

P.S. sper ca nu am uitat pe nimeni :)

Singuratatea

    Singuratatea, nu doar atunci cind nu ai pe nimeni alaturi, dar si atunci cind esti inconjurat de oameni si tot te simti singur. Atunci cind prin toata galagia ce te inconjoara esti inghitit de o liniste adinca si apasatoare incit auzi si bataile inimii. Singuratatea, atunci cind zimbesti nu de aceea ca ai vrea sa o faci, dar de aceea ca asa e mai simplu si nu e nevoie de explicatii. Singuratea e atunci cind te simti gol pe din nautru si nu tine de cite ori pe saptamina iesi cu prietenii in oras. Singuratatea e ceea ce simti si nu ceea ce arati. Singuratatea e atunci cind strigi si nimeni nu te aude, fiindca atunci iti striga sufletul. 

   Singuratatea e ceea ce construim singuri, gindindu-ne ca oricum nimanui nu-i pasa si la un moment dat ea ne inghite. E ca si cum ai fi inconjurat de patru pereti de sticla, de parca ai vedea totul, dar totul ar merge pe linga tine. E autoizolarea cu care ne deprindem si in care ne simtim in siguranta. E o lume pe care ni-o creem si care e cu mult mai simpla decit cea care ne inconjoara. 

   Cel mai periculos nu e insasi singuratatea, dar deprinderea cu aceasta idee. Toti avem nevoie de ea citeodata, dar trebuie sa avem grija sa nu ne lasam coplesiti de ea. Si daca totusi v-ati apucat sa construiti pereti sa nu uitati lomul si ciocanul.

Anger

    Life, everybody running, trying to beat the time to get to the top and falling down to be eaten by this angry world. World full of fury, of people that less often smile to each other, people that are angry on themselves and everybody else. Anger, a feeling that we sometimes have more often then any other. Why? may be it's because of us, because of the people or because of the time we live in, I really don't know, but it's getting worse and worse. People become greed and angry, they forgot what is most important in this world, not money, not fame, the most important are we, our families, our friends.

   The fact is that everything in this world has two sides, sometimes anger pushes us to make another try and we get our goal. Anger it's like a bomb ticking inside you and if you don't disarm it in a right way you can explode and get out of control.

   My biggest mistake was that I was angry on everybody when I fail, but not on me. Everytime I was looking for an excuse, but somewhere inside I knew that these are just excuses and this were doing me more angry. I was ready to explode like a soap bubble. How I passed? I didn't, I just learn to control it and to turn it off or on when it's the right time.

    Anger like love is one of our strongest sources of power, just control it and use it right.

only not in that way)